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01/03/2024 12:00 AM
Why We Write
A Look Back At Some Of The Best Writing In The Living Section This Past Year
Kathy Connolly started writing her Green & Growing column for us more than 10 years ago to help share what she knew about her area of expertise and as part of launching her business.
“It quickly became a big part of my education,” she says. One of her college professors used to say to her, “Writing is a way of knowing,” and that is what she discovered. “I have never forgotten his words, which have provided some of the energy to produce more than 160 articles since 2013.”
In addition to helping educate us about the natural world in which we live, she is also helping to engage us in a critical part of our lives in a pivotal moment in history. “If we don’t understand plants’ central role in all life, it’s hard to properly understand what we must do individually and as a society going forward.”
Connolly, who lives in Old Saybrook, is just one of our many talented and generous freelancers who contribute to the pages of the Living section of this newspaper each week. Whether it’s the weeds in our own backyard or rising sea levels around the world, they help us understand how our lives, lived locally, connect with each other and the world at large.
As I look back at this past year, which was admittedly a difficult one for this newspaper — as with many newspapers, we are dealing with constant budget cuts — working with these freelancers and reading their work was one of the highlights of my year. I hope that was true for you, too. So I took some time at the end of last year to ask them why they write. This is what they told me.
The Richness Of Our Lives
Karen Isaacs, who lives in East Haven, is our longtime theater reviewer and writer who has been working with us for almost two decades. She also is a performer, a singer who understands what it takes to get up in front of an audience. She says she writes and sings for the same reason: “It is part of who I am,” she says. “If I don’t, I miss it.”
She is drawn to writing about theater specifically because she understands how it contributes to the richness of our lives. “We see other people, other times, other situations and, from these, we become more aware. It doesn’t matter if it is a light comedy or a tragedy; we take something away from it that makes us more human,” she says. “Because of that, I want to share this with others with the hope that my writing will encourage them to explore the amazing world of theater.”
Lisa Nee, who lives in Madison, writes an occasional column for us called “Such is Life.” She writes in part because she is a lifelong voracious reader. When I asked her why she writes, she remembered the effect that stories had on her as a kid, including the stories of Bambi, Louisa May Alcott, and Annie Oakley. “I believed authors were magicians who, without suspecting, could make me laugh, pop my eyes with wonder, and bring characters and places into my life with the turn of a page,” she says. “I also found reading a little terrifying because I am an empathetic reader. My mother would sometimes find me in the closet heaving full-body sobs in response to Bambi’s mother dying or Beth’s last breath.”
The Roulette Wheel Of Words
Why was she tucked away in the closet? “I knew if my brother found me, the teasing would never end.” Still, she thought, “... if I could ever put words into a particular order to enhance someone’s life with a smile, a sniffle, or a bit of awe. I should do it. So when the roulette wheel of words clicks into place, I need to write it down and, when appropriate, share it.”
Juliana Gribbins, our Shoreline Living columnist, is motivated to write because she loves a good story. “Whether it’s hearing one, living one, or writing one, a good story always makes my day,” she says.
Rita Christopher, who recently moved to Madison, writes our “Because You Didn’t Ask” column. She says she loves to write. “Not that it is easy for me–it is not–but it is the way I can make readers part of my world,” she says.
Liz Egan, who lives in Clinton, is our “Recipes for Life” columnist. She suffered the loss of her husband this year, a tragedy that might have stalled out some writers. But she not only kept going, she learned from her grief and generously passed those lessons on to us. It helps, she says, for her, writing is fun. It helps keep her connected to others, of course, but also to her own life. “It helps me recognize and celebrate the moments of every day, past or present,” she says.
We were pleased to welcome to our team Jillian Simms, who lives in Old Saybrook, when she launched her “Apron Strings” column in March. She writes to reflect and remember. “I write to find humor in the mundane. I write to look within and to reach out,” she says.
Building Community
One of our newest columnists, Sean Gargamelli-McCreight, who lives in Guilford, writes about area farms and farmers in his column “Homegrown.” We welcomed him to our team in November. He is part of the Benincasa Community, which partners with local organizations, churches, and school groups to help spread the word about sustainable community-based food production. The community also helps grow and deliver free, healthy, organic produce to those in need. He writes because it helps build community.
“I write because I have found building community to be the strongest antidote to many ails in life, personally and politically,” he says. “The opportunity to share and be shared with by folks who are different than me is paramount for learning about one another and strengthening our bonds as humans, farmers, workers, and neighbors on this glorious planet.”
Here are some highlights from their writing from this past year:
Kathy Connolly:
- Where Are the Bees And Butterflies in 2023? (www.zip06.com/living/20230905/where-are-the-bees-and-butterflies-in-2023/). “My work often brings me into contact with people trying to protect and promote birds, butterflies, bees, and other creatures.”
- No Time Like Summer for Visiting the Shoreline’s Public Gardens (www.zip06.com/living/20230621/no-time-like-summer-for-visiting-the-shorelines-public-gardens/): About Connecticut Historic Gardens Day.
- Small Changes Help Small Creatures In A Changing World (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230419/small-changes-help-small-creatures-in-a-changing-world/) Here Are Some Simple Ways To Celebrate Earth Day Every Day
- The Art of Managing Summer Rain (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230405/the-art-of-managing-summer-rain/) Several Rain Barrel Sales Are Now Underway
- Where Shall We Walk Today? (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230215/where-shall-we-walk-today/) “I’ve been walking the area’s woodland trails for a long time, but certainly haven’t visited all of them.”
- Fighting the Flying Scourges (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230119/fighting-the-flying-scourges/)
- This Winter Be On The Lookout For Spotted Lantern Fly Eggs
Karen Isaacs:
Karen Isaacs wrote this column that includes information about what to look for in 2024:” Holidays on the Stage and a Look at 2024.” (www.zip06.com/living/20231130/holidays-on-the-stage-and-a-look-at-2024/)
Lisa Nee
Lisa Nee took a close look at gifts, including those we receive year round, at the end of last year: “That's a Gift!” (https://www.zip06.com/living/20231215/thats-a-gift/)
Julie Gribbins
- Thankful?(www.zip06.com/living/20231123/thankful/)“ The autumn time change always hits me in the face. I’m never quite prepared, even though it happens every year. I know it’s coming. I know it’s only an hour difference. Yet, it somehow catches me off guard.”
- Fright Night (https://www.zip06.com/living/20231026/fright-night/) “After spending seven hours in the ER, what I want when I get home is food. And monsters. I grab a bite and turn on the TV. I’m leaned back among my pillows, exhausted. Have I done anything but lay around and wait all day today? Not really.”
- Catching Trains (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230921/catching-trains/) “I took the magazine from his large hand and smiled. He smiled back. I think he could see me smiling at him, although his vision had been damaged by disease. “Would you like to read this one to me?” he asked. I looked down at the open page. There was ...“
- Summer Storm (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230817/summer-storm/) “A gasp of wind, a brilliant flash. “Oh! That was a good one!” I cry. “My hair is blowing around!” someone says with the knife-sharp edge of annoyance tinging her tone. I’m dining on the porch of a Block Island hotel with Fisher Cat and a new group of...“
- Where There’s Smoke (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230720/where-theres-smoke/) “When I leave the office building, the first thing I notice is the smell. It’s like walking onto a campground when it’s evening and everyone is busting out the marshmallows, chocolate bars, and graham crackers. Fires are blazing, and it’s time to grab...”
- Trainspotting (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230622/trainspotting/) “It’s 3 a.m. Of course, I’m awake. My mind’s worry jukebox begins to spin the latest and greatest hits. Then I hear a sound that’s instantly familiar and comforting. The low rumble of a distant train. For much of my childhood, I lived alongside train ...”
- Midnights (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230518/midnights/) “It’s midnight and I realize I’ve done something awful. Again. I open my eyes and squint at the unholy brightness. The lights are on and so is the TV. I’m hesitant to sit up because I know I’ve been in an unnatural position for what, two hours?”
- Remain in Light (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230420/remain-in-light/) “There’s a chill in the air, but the days are becoming long, stretching out like sweet taffy. I drive in blazing noon light to a gathering of long-time friends. Good friends. The kind of friends you meet for the first time and bond with immediately. ...”
- The Winter That Wasn’t (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230323/the-winter-that-wasnt/)“I’m going to go out on a weather limb, even though at the time of my writing this, there’s a nor’easter in the forecast. This is the Winter That Wasn’t. There. I said it. Believe me, I’m not complaining. ”
- Snowbirding (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230308/snowbirding/) “We are having difficulty,” a voice over the intercom states. These are not words you want to hear when you’re on a plane. Here on the Shoreline, there are people called “snowbirds.” They live in this area during the best of weather times and then fl...
- Selectively Social (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230119/selectively-social/) “When Punxsutawney Phil, the famous groundhog, pokes his head out of his wintry hidey hole and sees his shadow, he retreats to wait out six more weeks of winter. If he doesn’t see his shadow, he looks forward to an early spring. I can relate.”
Rita Christopher
- The Picture (https://www.zip06.com/living/20231130/the-picture/) “Yes, it is me, a long-ago version. My daughter-in-law sent the picture to me.”
- Foodie (https://www.zip06.com/living/20231019/foodie/) “I go to the carwash every couple of months, not so much to get the outside of my vehicle clean (though it undoubtedly needs it) but to vacuum the inside, to suction up something that would have been inconceivable to my parents’ generation...”
- Let’s Hear it For the Narwhal (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230928/lets-hear-it-for-the-narwhal/) “Narwhal? Never heard of it? The marine animal that looks like a sleeker version of a dolphin with one tusk protruding from its head. So, naturally, they are nicknamed unicorns of the sea. But real narwhals are not my subject.”
- Where Did It Go? (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230921/where-did-it-go/) “Okay, give it back! I am serious: give it back. Who stole summer? It was just Memorial Day. Now, Labor Day has come and gone. Who took summer? Who or what grabbed all those delicious days before I had a chance to enjoy every minute of them?”
- Lounging Around (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230824/lounging-around/) “I should be done writing about airports, but indulge me once more. This is a story about greed, endurance, and an airport lounge. The greed, well, let’s just call it penny-pinching, was my own.“
- Exit Strategy (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230817/exit-strategy/) “I always hold my breath as my carry-on luggage goes through the airport screening machine.
- Left to My Own Devices (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230727/left-to-my-own-devices/) “In fact, being left to my own devices is exactly what I do not want. I don’t understand any of them. I am now in the position of having a car, a digital watch, an iPad, and a MacBook Pro, all of them smarter than I am.”
- More Than a Song (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230714/more-than-a-song/) “I went to a concert in which my granddaughter sang–of course, I went, even though it meant a trip from Connecticut to Texas. I am happy to say there was only one flight delay and then only for 45 minutes.”
- A Wrinkle In Time (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230622/a-wrinkle-in-time/) “I am looking at it. I have been looking at it for three weeks, but I have not yet opened it. When I was five years old, I tried, unless parentally restrained, to rip open a package with my name on it seconds after I saw it.”
- Finding My Roots (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230525/finding-my-roots/) “I want to talk about roots. Not genealogy not ancestors, but hair color. And hair color, at a certain time of life, is about more than just color. It is about age. Babies, for instance, are not born with gray hair.”
- Thanks for the Memories (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230427/thanks-for-the-memories/) “I don’t like making beds; I suspect nobody does, but there is one part of the process that is, for me, filled with far more tender memories than a king-size sheet deserves. It’s all about hospital corners.”
- Going Bananas (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230215/going-bananas-2/) “Bananas are just there, in the fruit bowl. Not the kind of thing I used to think of often, except when I passed a bunch in the supermarket produce section. Were we out? Did I need more?”
Liz Egan:
- Christmas Past, Present, And Future (https://www.zip06.com/living/20231221/christmas-past-present-and-future/) My Favorite Holiday Stories
- Holiday Cookies to Bake, Gift, and Serve (https://www.zip06.com/living/20231207/holiday-cookies-to-bake-gift-and-serve/) The Trifecta of Shortbread Recipes
- Letting Go of Things (https://www.zip06.com/living/20231004/letting-go-of-things/) “For me, cleaning out seems to be a process of letting go. That process includes the physical work of removal, the emotional work of detachment and the spiritual growth of renewal.”
- What’s The Point? (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230913/whats-the-point/) Moving Through Grief With the Joy of Cooking
- A Pretty Peach Tart (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230824/a-pretty-peach-tart/) “Peach season here in Connecticut should last at least another few weeks. I get my peaches at CT Valley Orchards in Deep River. Other great places to get locally grown peaches include Bishop’s Orchards and Farm Market in Guilford and Lyman Orchards”
- A Harvest of Love (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230823/a-harvest-of-love/) “Harvest time has begun. Every year my internal clock tells me when it’s time to make jam, salsa, and other products from area farms.”
- Navigating Loss (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230719/navigating-loss/) How The Black Book Helped Me Move Forward.
- We’re Better Together (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230504/were-better-together/) “As a longtime fan of potlucks, I’ve become ever more fond of them recently as I ease myself back into the new normal of my post-pandemic entertaining routine, whatever that will evolve into.”
- Artichokes: An Appreciation (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230504/artichokes-an-appreciation/) “My appreciation for artichokes began as a child. During the spring, when they are in season, my parents would cook four artichokes in a pressure cooker and we’d have them as a second course at dinner.”
- April Showers (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230420/april-showers/) “April has always been a month of growth for me. The dark cold days of winter end, and the month is peppered with rain along with the hint of the warm days ahead.”
- How to Make Lasting Memories Filled with Love, Joy, Learning (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230329/how-to-make-lasting-memories-filled-with-love-joy-learning/) Egg-stra Special Passover and Easter Crafts
- Kindness, Comfort, and Casseroles (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230308/kindness-comfort-and-casseroles/) “A few weeks ago, my husband celebrated his new birthday. This monumental event was the one-year anniversary of his bone marrow stem cell transplant. A little over a year ago, we were given little hope of his survival.”
- A Reliable Loaf, Four Ways (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230302/a-reliable-loaf-four-ways/) St. Patrick’s Day and Irish Soda Bread
- Pineapple Peel Tea, For What Ails You (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230201/pineapple-peel-tea-for-what-ails-you/) “Growing old(er) is not for the faint of heart. While I consider myself an active person, with each passing year, body aches seem to increase and become an issue.”
- Football and Chicken Wings (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230126/football-and-chicken-wings/) “Growing up in the 1960s in Long Island, New York, I learned to love football. Each of the New York Team held a moment of my life. I remember watching the Giants’ Fran Tarkenton and the Jets’ Joe Namath in elementary school.”
- My Hero And His Favorite Food: Pecan Pie (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230112/my-hero-and-his-favorite-food-pecan-pie/) “Everybody needs a hero. The Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. is mine. In 1968, my fourth-grade teacher, Sister Bernadette, talked to us about racial equality and about a man who was standing up for what was good and right and just.”
Jillian Simms
- Sharing The Flavors Of Our Lives (https://www.zip06.com/living/20231221/sharing-the-flavors-of-our-lives/) Food Helps Create A Tapestry Of Treasured Christmas Traditions
- A Fruit Right Out of Greek Mythology (https://www.zip06.com/living/20231109/a-fruit-right-out-of-greek-mythology/) “Connecticut in the autumn has much to recommend it. Our state, like the rest of New England, is considered by many to be at its peak when the leaves change and the evenings grow chilly.”
- Following Her Passion for Chocolate Onto a New Path (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230920/following-her-passion-for-chocolate-onto-a-new-path/) Building A Life She Wanted For Herself And Her Children
- Battling ‘Dinner Block’ With New Rules (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230914/battling-dinner-block-with-new-rules/) “I can’t remember what we eat. It’s September, and life has begun to fall back into a routine, but my brain is lagging far behind. This happens to me once or twice a year, usually when the seasons change.”
- The Popsicle Report (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230727/the-popsicle-report/) Popsicles For Everyone. Every day. All Day Long
- Shad and Dads (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230615/shad-and-dads/) A Deep Dive Into The Mysteries Of This Unassuming, Celebrated Fish
- Worth the Wait (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230518/worth-the-wait-2/) A Spring Salad and a Wine Pairing, Too
- At the Intersection of Brunch and Mom (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230504/at-the-intersection-of-brunch-and-mom/) “When did Mother’s Day brunch become a thing?” Apparently, I’m not the first to wonder when the holiday and the meal became so inextricably linked because much ink has been spilled on the history of the mother and the meal.
- Seafood, First Dates, Summertime Memories, And Now Tacos, Too (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230426/seafood-first-dates-summertime-memories-and-now-tacos-too/) In The Kitchen With Greg Sharon At Clam Castle
- Love Notes Of Butter And Sugar (https://www.zip06.com/living/20230413/love-notes-of-butter-and-sugar/) These Cookies Are A Tiny Way To Say Thank You For Coming, I’m So Glad You’re Here
Sean Gargamelli-McCreight
- Grandmother Trees (https://www.zip06.com/living/20231101/grandmother-trees/) “At the top of the highest point on our small farm, there is a great white oak tree with a wide trunk base. With the overgrown thicket and steep incline, it’s not an easy point to reach, especially during inclement weather, and most visitors to the farm never even know it’s there. Like trekking to the Oracle in her mountaintop temple for self-discovery, the journey sometimes feels like the destination. Whenever I venture up there though, I sit in awe of its size and the way in which it seems to have birthed all of the much smaller and younger trees below it. Since our first encounter, I have affectionately called her the Grandmother Tree.”
- The Gift Of Local 12/14 https://www.zip06.com/living/20231221/giving-the-gift-of-local/
Kathy Connolly, our Green and Growing columnist, wrote about the effect of our lives and environment on other living creatures, including butterflies. Photo courtesy of Kathy Connolly
Kathy Connolly, our Green and Growing columnist, also told us about some great places to go for walks and hikes on the shoreline and in Connecticut. Photo courtesy of Kathy Connolly
Sometimes taking simple steps, like building an enclosure for cats, can help our bird populations, writes Kathy Connolly, our Green and Growing columnist. Photo courtesy of Cathy Connolly
When Liz Egan suffered the loss of her husband, who died this year, she took the lessons she learned from her grief, and shared those with us in her column. Photo courtesy of Liz Egan
Liz Egan, our Recipes for Life columnist, also shared many recipes with us this past year. Photo courtesy of Liz Egan
Liz Egan’s column, Recipes for Life, also shared tips about how to enjoy seasonal harvests in Connecticut. Photo courtesy of Liz Egan
When Liz Egan’s husband died this years, she shared with us lessons she learned from her grief, including the importance of keeping it simple in times like that. Photo courtesy of Liz Egan
When Liz Egan, our Recipes for Life columnist, lost her husband this year, a relative created a black book for her to help her reorganize her new life. She shared those tips with us in her column. Photo courtesy of LIz Egan
Susan Willis of Bitta Blue Farms in KillingwSean Gargamelli-McCreight’s new column, “Homegrown,” which takes an intimate look at the lives of the farmers who put food on our tables. Photo courtesy of Sean Gargamelli-McCreight
On a sunny fall morning, Sean Gargamelli-McCreight and his two-year-old joined Susan Willis at her Bitta Blue Farm on River Road in Killingworth to “harvest pole beans and talk about some of the wisdom she’s gathered while living and working over the last 50 years with zero-waste on this organic farm.” Photo courtesy of Sean Gargamelli-McCreight
In Sean Gargamelli-McCreight’s column, “Homegrown,” Susan Willis told us, “There will be setbacks, some things will not work or grow. Make sure you take time to pay attention to what is working and then learn to take breaks. Sit next to a pond, and watch the fish. If you’re weeding a 50 foot row, stand up every once in a while and look around.” Photo courtesy of Sean Gargamelli-McCreight
Jillian Simms, our new “Apron Strings” columnist, shared recipes with us including for shortbread. Photo courtesy of Jillian Simms
Jillian Simms, our “Apron Strings” columnist, writes about balancing her love for food with her love for her family, along with the demands of getting meals on the table for that family. Photo courtesy of Jillian Simms